Ever asked yourself “Who Controls You?” Are you truly the one in control of you, your choices, behaviours, speech? Or do you let others control you, voluntarily or involuntarily. Yes. People can control you without your knowing it. It’s worse when you think you’re in control not knowing you’ve lost
Tag: Validation
How Often Do You Seek Validation?
You see, it’s natural for human beings to seek validation in a lot of ways. Many times, we go out of our way to control how people view us. We want to make sure others see us in a certain way, through a certain kind of lens that magnifies us in some way.
We unconsciously or subconsciously try to buy respect with money or some other form of vague physical exchange currency.
It’s in the clothes we buy and the boutique we buy them from. It’s in the designer we wear their shoes or the brand we rep their bags.