Why Do Women Remain In Abusive Marriages?

Hello TEB fam. Today I’m here for my women. My married women. My married women whose marriages are abusive. For real, why are you still in your abusive marriage? Why do women remain in abusive marriages? This is one question that has no logically justifiable answer. If there were to be a marking scheme, what score would likely be awarded the best answer? …If there’s such thing as best answer. Let’s go this way, if you say it’s for: The kids❌ The marriage to remain❌ What people will say❌ The sake of ‘Christianity’❌ Let another woman not replace me❌ I’m

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Are You in Control of You?

Ever asked yourself “Who Controls You?” Are you truly the one in control of you, your choices, behaviours, speech? Or do you let others control you, voluntarily or involuntarily. Yes. People can control you without your knowing it. It’s worse when you think you’re in control not knowing you’ve lost the power. So how do people control you involuntarily? When you always react to provocation. Some people are quick to anger. Some even pride in it, you hear things like “na small thing dey vex me” or “I dey quick vex no try me”. You really believe it’s a great stride

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Never Fry Plantain First, It’s a Trap.

So I was thirsting for the breakfast of my dreams: fried plantain plus fried sweet potatoes plus fried egg downed with a cup of coffee. Oh my favourite things in this world of sin.

Now, it’s not normal of me – must have been my village people doing soft work on my case- but I zombie-shly started slicing the plantains first.

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Her Husband Raped Her.

Dear TEBian, I got this heart-wrenching call today from a friend and colleague and for some 30 minutes later, I was unable to think of anything else. Neither could I think properly. 

So this woman came to make inquiry at the Pharmacy on how she could access emergency medical help…

Because her husband raped her! And she strongly suspects him to be HIV positive.

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How Often Do You Seek Validation?

You see, it’s natural for human beings to seek validation in a lot of ways. Many times, we go out of our way to control how people view us. We want to make sure others see us in a certain way, through a certain kind of lens that magnifies us in some way.

We unconsciously or subconsciously try to buy respect with money or some other form of vague physical exchange currency.

It’s in the clothes we buy and the boutique we buy them from. It’s in the designer we wear their shoes or the brand we rep their bags.

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Moms! My Potentially Dramatic Motherhood.

Moms! I came across this pix! And I’m like aaawwwwnnn…. so sweet. So I thought to gist my TEB fam. See the caption, “World’s Best Picture”. Honestly, it’s the best fit. Look at that face huh. Moms really take the pain for their babies. Like the baby even appears brave and fearless kinda. This is not the kind of situation where you ask mom: “Is it your paining?” Ah. It is both her injection and her paining too oh. Haba. I think even the bravest of moms can subconsciously put up that fit. I bet she had no idea her

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5 Reasons Why You Should Like Money

Hey TEBian, I hope you’ve had a blissful day. I’m teasing you today with a wild declaration: “I like money!” There…you have it. And also give you 5 solid reasons why you should like money too. Well, it is not new to those who know me already; friends and family. Recently, my girlfriend tagged me to one post that read: “Tag a friend who would become a billionaire by 30”…or something like that. Wawu! I literally grew saucer eyes when I read the notification. Hey gawd! See this private jet one posh damsel in hot shades was stepping out from in

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Welcome Post

Hi Visitor😊, You’re reading my blog. Yay! It’s my first post yet so it’s specially dedicated to saying welcome to you, and I pray you become a TEBian today. Did I hear Amen? Yes. Ok. I was saying, the spirit of the Lord has led you to my ministry and you must not leave “empty-smiled”. This is the only ministry you will ever attend where the amount for sowing seed is Zero Naira, Zero Dollar. Doubt me? Ask your pastor. So while you leave the minister “empty-moneyed”, thou must not leave her“empty-TEBianed”. Mba nu. Move this ministry forward and subscribe

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